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0 • Like •Brent
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0 • Like •Along with @Matthew, thanks for your guys' fast replies.
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0 • Like •I've looked over my own account for an option to block people, but the only person it allows me to block is myself from showing up on the member list, which isn't entirely useful to me, personally. I've also looked over this other person's forum profile for an ignore option, and didn't see one, if it was there.
Is there an option to ignore certain members here? If so, where is it? I could easily do without ever seeing another bragging session from this individual, or another recounting of him having 30 or more copies of set X, on which he'll sit on until he's the only one selling it in the world allowing him to bring home MAXIMUM PROFIT!!!
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0 • Like •lazysleepy...Whenever I see that someone wants to block particular posters I get all paranoid that it's me and my drivel they want to avoid.
But I'm pretty sure you're not talking about me here, so I'll sleep easy tonight! :)
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0 • Like •I don't disagree with you, dougts, the ignoring somebody on my own isn't a bad idea. The person in question seems to have the ability to steer conversations in his own direction though, which is annoying, to say the least.
That's not to say that I'm not annoying, myself, either. In fact, one of the people on this forum whom I've hated for easily the last decade, far longer than I have been visiting this forum, if it even existed that long ago, posts unfortunately very useful comments that I find myself reading entirely before I go back to see who wrote it, and skip to another page in dismay of finding his post interesting. This one, I'm not eager to ignore through site updates.
I also question your idea of "over the top". If you mean that, by simply writing what I see him do, then sure, it's over the top. It's not a personal animosity towards the person, either. I'm not the only one who has complained about his brag fests here, or the way seemingly every conversation he posts in turns more towards an idea of making money, rather than building for the sake of building and having a good time doing it.
I try to be descriptive with my writing, so it doesn't come off as bland. I know for a fact this doesn't translate well to a lot of readers on forums, and many would rather see replies or additions to topics as attacks, rather than what they are meant to be. Also, I try to write in a manner that engages readers to continue reading my posts, and not read two lines, thinking they know what it's all about, and proceed to skip the body and main point of whatever it is to go to the next reply in a series.
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0 • Like •I had a feeling that the ignore option wasn't an option in this forum. It would be a very good thing to add, for any moderator who might come across this thread.
Oh, I found the other thread. Yes, it seems that this option wasn't available in December, and doesn't seem to have been implemented by Vanilla Ice since then, either.
Oh well. As with the other thread, thanks for the timely replies.
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0 • Like •With regards to your animous towards a couple of members here, this is not news as you've expressed it already and on more than one occasion. If I were you, I'd reread the post from @dougts and try to just ignore those posts or topics you find disaffecting. Please note that we are an active moderation team and do our best to keep discussions on point and civil.
Additionally, I would like to remind you that should this feature ever be enabled, you may be in it's crosshairs as much as those you seem to despise.
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0 • Like •One thing that I haven't noticed here are any flame wars as was the case over on flickr's LEGO discussions and for that I am grateful. To some the bragging of finds can be annoying and to others the constant plugging of products/LEGO for sale can be bothersome. I wouldn't be surprised if when I plug the LUG I belong to that this annoys some but to each their own.
The members of this forum have interacted with one another with respect and class. Let's keep it this way.
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0 • Like •I get it - there are some posters and recurring topics here that annoy the heck out of me, believe me. But I can only control what I view and how I decide to react to it (or not). Personally, I find it helpful to have another forum member as an outlet I can "vent" my frustrations to. Have you tried that?
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0 • Like •If someone makes you feel insecure and angry, the first and best way to deal with it is to ask yourself why. In many cases you'll find that either you have no reason to feel as you do or else you'll discover something about yourself you probably aren't happy with. If the latter, you alone have the power to change that in yourself. Blocking those who inspire such revelations won't solve your problem and if it's their behavior that is truly the issue then you can opt to ignore them without a coded solution by simply not reading what they post. The power is already in your hands if you choose to exercise it.
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0 • Like •You all can thank me later for this great selfless good deed for all of humanity! ;)
*puts tin-foil hat back on*
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0 • Like •In the past the creator and mods have found great ways around keeping ALL members here happy; not sure the "just don't read it" answer is the best solution to maintain visitors, again only an opinion.
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0 • Like •Just seems petty to me that someone would want to block another user given the lack of anything really controversial on these forums.
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0 • Like •Again, I find I will visit a site much more if it shows stuff I am interested in.
I would seriously consider implementing some solution for this if it was my website, I would not want users to visit less.
I don't personally see it as petty, I too find it a shame that what was a great website dedicated to collecting sets, I now have to spend as much time skipping stuff as reading stuff (possibly more), when again just my opinion, but I don't see that these posts refered to above are anything to do with collecting lego sets, just someone showing their warehouse. The website is BrickSET, not BrickSELLERS.
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0 • Like •Or do you think that the photos of hundreds of copies of a set (may as well be a photo of the TRU warehouse) are relevant to Brickset?
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0 • Like •Essentially, everyone has their 'days' and people do say silly things sometimes, and sometimes people go through 'phases', whether because of other things in their lives, or just because they maybe arent aware of how they are coming across, (or maybe because they dont care in which case theyll likely be gone soon anyway).
If you dont like how someone's behaving you can sit back and complain or you can get involved and gently try and change their behaviour in a way which helps them to 'self-right'. This will be far more effective than just ignoring them, just like in real life.
Any tools which pander to and breed animosity feel more like weapons to me, and have no place in buiding a community of trust, and dare I say it, friendship.
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0 • Like •I have said my piece. Again I fail to see that this brings anything to the site other than to increase certain individual's ego's (and annoy a fairly reasonable amount of users) but it's your (Huw + co) site, so you make the rules.
I think I will give Si's comment a go, will get involved and gently try to change things :)
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0 • Like •In addition, most people on this forum in my view seem pretty switched on and smart (good reflection on AFOLs!), therefore if you block somebody on the basis of one topic, you might miss some useful info from that poster on another.
Besides, as a last resort you can just ignore the actual posts.
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0 • Like •http://www.bricksetforum.com/discussion/2698/blocks-posts
I see where you're coming from @princedraven, and you know it bothers me too, but I don't see that there's anything that can be done really. It is annoying when bragging/reselling comments creep into non-related discussions, but I think the mods on the whole do a good job of calling people on it and we as a community have to flag it up if we're unhappy with the appropriateness of a comment, for them to decide if intervention is needed or not.
My opinion on the kind of comments referred to by trypticon is public record, but these days I've decided it's better to mostly grit my teeth and bite my tongue (and maybe have a private whinge instead :) for the sake of a friendly community spirit. I must be growing up... how alarming!
I have to say that I'm not in favour of heavier-handed moderation, because I know over 50% of what I say is off-topic, but I'd find it incredibly depressing if I got reprimanded for every comment I make when trying to get to know people or have a bit of a laugh (are you listening @Matthew? Though since I won the bet you're not supposed to do that anymore, mwah-ha-ha! :)
Oh, and thanks trypticon for your kind words!
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0 • Like •I liken it to a TV channel, if you allow any programs on there, soon you find yourself switching over (just ignore it), but how long before you dont bother switching back to channel Brickset?
What if you are a newbie, you look on a few posts about a select few who are buying hundreds of copies of items, you think the website isn't what I am interested in and 'turn over'. I know of one newbie here who I have chatted to just recently who feels these posts are just as unappealing as I.
OK, so I will drop it now, as above, said my bit, just sad that rather than BS being how it was, like a PAB wall, all nice shiny interesting topics, it is becoming more like a 2nd hand garage sale box, sort through the junk to find the good stuff.
Sorry peop's just passionate about the site as it has been my door way into the world of Lego and some awesome people, don't like to see it 'tainted' and I know that is a view, but the fact that it is not just my view must speak volumes.
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0 • Like •I'm glad this hasn't descended into a flame war, and no one has named names, which is how it should be. Though I'm pleased the OP said "he" *wipes brow*
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0 • Like •Whereas over Christmas was by far a worse time for the bragging, and understandably given the timing of the promotions, the mods and staff were bombarded with off-topic threads and so I cut them some slack for not keeping up back then. However, if you wanted an example of one that I think may have slipped through, I must ask if it was entirely necessary to post pictures showing a great big stack of Fire Brigades followed by a haul of Mini HEs in the "Predicitions on Discontinuing Sets" thread? But then, quite often that thread goes off in one form or another (most recently earlier this week) and the staff were quick to pull it back in line and seperate the thread.
Do I read those types of threads as often as I did? No, for the same reasons as @Prince I suspect, but then the forum doesn't revolve around me and if that's the avenue Brickset want to go down then the worst that's going to happen is that I don't read or visit as often as I did. Whilst Huw's statistics and figures continue to rise, I can't see him or any of the other staff making any drastic changes to how the forum is maintained.
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0 • Like •And so what if people post things here that doesn't interest me, or perhaps even annoys me? I can't see that the answer to that problem is to give them or the subject more attention by starting new threads on the subject. Just start other threads instead about things that you yourself would like to read about. And if you don't like a thread - ignore it and move on. I do that all of the time, for several reasons. One of them is that english isn't my first language. It takes time and focus for me to both read and write some sort of proper english, so I'm not going to waste time reading (or writing) stuff that I'm not interested in.
An example: I sometimes read a bit about the sales in the US (and the UK). Lego here in Sweden is ridiculously expensive. But hey, that's life. So I started a subject about how you can piece together a set from Bricklink, and also took some time to take pictures about my project. I don't expect everyone else to be interested in that project, but it's a constructive way for me to share my solution to a problem.
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0 • Like •As for myself I can be harsh and was about the reviews (sorry captrex) just remember we all have bad days and maybe thats why they said what they said and that you cant just write off everything they say ever. and even in their brags they may say something useful.
@Duchessa that project post was super insipring and now planing my own projects based on what you did
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0 • Like •This is exactly one of the reasons why I have favored the Category view for the forum. It gives me the opportunity to mostly ignore the topics I'm not interested in. I like LEGO for the sake of building and collecting. I could care less about the investment or bragging aspects, and so I steer away from those areas. I may miss out on some great deals, but I also don't have to subject myself to the stuff I rather not read... win some, lose some.
Probably the best thing to do is flag offending or off-topic messeges so admin and mods are made aware of it, but don't overuse or abuse the flag option...
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0 • Like •Here's the bottom line with the idea of an ignore option:
In most of the forums I go to, it is an established ability. It lets you put certain people on ignore, not out of hate, but because what they write is either annoying or easily misunderstood, much like my own writing is to some people here. You can see that they posted something, but it's blocked from your view.
Though the post may be blocked, it doesn't mean you have no chance of seeing it. Every forum where this is implemented also gives a button that allows you to see what the given person wrote, so the option is yours to see what is written. If a discussion that the person in question is involved in takes a turn for the interesting, you then have the option available to see something written without having to remove this person from your own ignore list temporarily. This is common sense to anybody who's been to a few forums before, so I don't know why I just explained that.
Somebody made a point that if this option is given to the forum, that people may put me on ignore. Doing so if their own decision, and does not result in me feeling insulted, because I understand that not everyone gets along with everyone else. People who do get along with everyone are few and far between, and while I give them credit to their tolerant personality, I also have to wonder how sincere they are with that type of attitude, because, in the US, where greed is god, and money rules the world, it just seems incredibly outlandish that a person, any person, would go through life without developing some sort of rivalry with somebody else, spoken or unspoken.
In reply to Prof1515, you put forward the idea that reading things from annonymous people at a digital forum can cause insecurity or anger. That reads back as slightly insane, and I mean no offense with that observation. You can grow weary the same thing happening over and over without insecurity or anger issues.
In closing, I could skip past the bragging sessions that intermix with subjects I'm interested in here, because I've been doing that the entire time. Frequent posts make doing so slightly more difficult, but not much. It would be easier, and honestly helpful, if the forum provided an option to remove posters who frequently boast about such things. While some may argue that ignoring one person is going to eventually lead to ignoring half the provided content here, thus leading people to visit and partake in conversation less often, there's also every bit of a chance that providing such an option would allow some, not all, but some forum members to enjoy the forum more, and visit more often than they were previously.
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0 • Like •@Legogeek - This is indeed another good argument for the Category view. The bigger we get, the more we're going to probably rely on the categories.
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0 • Like •"Ignore the thread" - simples!!!
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